Excess Pleasure Creates Excess Pain
When we practice addiction we are trying to alleviate fear, anxiety, and usually a chemical imbalance with excess
pleasure. The problem is that we usually have to use more and more pleasure to feel satisfied and there will come many consequences
to using too much pleasure to treat too much pain. Besides whatever physical consequences, there are also social, marital,
vocational, and spiritual "pain bills" you will have to pay in the end. You see over-pleasure creates a bill that keeps running
up higher and higher until one day it is so high that pain comes to collect the debt.
We may think we are making our life better through addiction but there is always a price of pain to pay with too
much pleasure. Drug addiction creates painful withdrawals, overeating creates the pain of exercising and dieting to work the
fat off again not to mention the public ridicule that comes from being overweight, self-injury creates wounds and permanent
scars, porn ruins you for sex and has led to many painful divorces. The list goes on and on. Think about your own addiction
and the pain it has caused you. So what is the answer? How do we get through the past and present pain that we have to face
and carry every day without our pleasure pacifiers?
First of all we need to take all of our old unhealed pain that we have been carrying around from our life and lay
it all at Jesus feet and ask Him to help us to heal it. Second of all we need to allow the Holy Spirit to counsel us and unravel
the roots of all the lies we have believed about ourselves, others, and God. And thirdly, we need to learn to meet our pleasure
needs in right and healthy ways and resist the urge to run back to our old pleasure idols. Ask God to help you to develop
healthy pleasures in your life and you will begin to enjoy things that you never used to. This is your day my friend to live
free from addiction so allow God to lead you into His true pleasures.
PS 16:11 You have made known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with
eternal pleasures at your right hand.
TIT 3:3 At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions
and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. 4 But when the kindness and love of God our
Savior appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy.