Why Perversion Can Never Be Satisfied
If you have a problem with sexual perversion, it likely started when you were very
young and became more pronounced as you got older. You might ask "How did this happen to me?" Well it happens for
several reasons. Usually it involves our relationship with our parents and our relationship with ourselves, and what we choose
as a safe and preferable gender identity. Once our sexual preferences have been established it is like wet cement that finally
hardens, whatever impressions are left upon it will usually be very lasting ones.
This may be a surprise to some people, but most people that have sexually perverse
desires don't like having them, and they have wished that they could just be normal like everyone else. But since sexual perversion
is heavily connected to unmet emotional needs and deep desires, they can be very difficult to change. Try this, think of your
favorite food right now, and then try to convince yourself that you don't like it. Did it work? Of course not, because usually
our likes and dislikes are established preferences and cannot be changed.
You may have noticed though that no matter how much we engage in sexual perversion
it can never really be fully satisfied. It actually just deepens and broadens the problem and leaves us more empty and disappointed
in the end. Sexual perversion is usually progressive and involves power, possession, punishment, or control of a parental
gender identity, either rejected or accepted incorrectly. The only way that you can heal the fruit of a tree is to dig up
the ground and heal the roots of the tree. Only then can the tree bear healthy fruit again.
Here are the two main reasons that sexual perversion can never be satisfied:
1. Because sexual perversion is almost always connected to a root unmet and unresolved childhood
emotional need concerning our relationship with our parents, and with ourselves.
2. Because evil spirits of sexual perversion can never fully satisfy their lust through humans
because it is their insatiable nature. Demons try to use a humans body for sexual pleasure.
You may be very weary with dealing with your sexual perversion problem, but there is
hope for you. Ask the Holy Spirit to take you back and to heal you at the root of the problem where things misdeveloped, and
He will. It took time for things to get off course, and it will take time to correct them, so be patient. God knows when you
are truly ready to face an old issue whether it be molestation, abandonment, divorce, abuse, or rejection. In the end it will
be a God-given revelation of the truth that will set you free, so trust God to set things right.
JN 8:32 Then you will know the truth, and
the truth will set you free.
Here is a prayer to pray if you need it:
"Dear God, you know what happened long ago that caused me to misdevelop sexually, and
you know what needs to be done to set things right, so I ask you today to come into my heart and life and to help me to live
sexually healthy and normal from now on, even if it means abstaining from sex altogether. I want to obey your sexual
laws God, so please help me to change in whatever ways that you know that I need to in order to do that. Thank you for helping
and healing me at the roots. In Jesus name I ask and pray these things, amen."
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